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Sarah Blakley-Cartwright is the author of Heavy Cream, a novel about a teenage girl finding mother figures in unconventional places. Itâs out tomorrow from Simon & Schuster. Below, Sarah Blakley-Cartwright recommends four books that complicate motherhood.
Mom & Me & Mom by Maya Angelou: Motherhood, in this telling, is not something fixed, either by biology or destiny. Rather than something that, once abandoned, must be permanently forfeited, motherhood is conceived of in this story as a relationship that can be built even belatedly, with enough attention and instructive, thoughtful action.
A Womanâs Battles and Transformations by Ădouard Louis: Ădouard Louisâs mother embodies a version of motherhood as something forged under titanic economic, social, and bodily pressures. She is a woman shaped by circumstance, a victim of structural forces, who then caused great damage to her young sons in turn. And yet, in a stunning reversal, the mother reveals herself not to be so stable, as she commits to actively reshaping herself. The story of motherhood, here, becomes something revisable.
The Liarsâ Club by Mary Karr: Mary Karrâs mother is glamorous, gun-wielding, alcoholic, and enigmatic, having been married and divorced six times in the marshy oil-refinery town of Leechfield, East Texas, twice to the girlsâ father. The reader misses her anytime she is not on the page. No mind that her daughters wonder if she might shoot them as they sleep. This mother cannot be reduced. The book never attempts to resolve her. She is dangerous, funny, depressive, and magnetic. And you miss her when sheâs gone.
Oranges Are Not the Only Fruit by Jeanette Winterson: Jeanette Wintersonâs mother exerts a totalizing influence. In an almost godlike way, the mother both creates and enforces, only allowing her daughter to glimpse certain parts of the world, permitting only those realities that align with her vision. Separation, ultimately, between the two becomes immensely fraught, as it is not only emotional but ontological. Attempting to leave her mother requires the daughter to reinvent the world.
This is an excerpt: check out Sarah Blakley-Cartwrightâs full thoughts on each of these books at Book Riot.
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