The 11 Best Male Masturbators For People With Penises, From Strokers To Vibrators

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Whenever you think of vibrators, we’ll hazard a guess that you picture a clit vibrator.

While the sex toy market has, admittedly, for the most part been tailored towards women, there are plenty of exciting sex toys for men and people with penises out there, too.

The most common of them all is the male masturbator. No prizes for having heard of Fleshlights – perhaps the most popular in the category – but there are also tons that rotate, thrust, vibrate, and app-controlled.

Keep reading for our round-up of the best, as well as everything you need to know about male masturbators.

Best male masturbators at a glance:

Lovense Gush 2 Motion Bellesa Ultrablow Fleshlight Flight Pilot Male Masturbator LELO F2S Hot Octopuss Pulse Solo Essential

What is a male masturbator?

If you’re wondering what the fuck we’re on about – you have two hands, after all – allow us to explain.

“A male masturbator is a sex toy designed to stimulate the penis during solo or partnered play,” according to April Maria, sex and relationships coach and Resident expert at Sex tech brand Hot Octopuss.

Just like clit vibrators, penis masturbators don’t come in one form. In fact, there are a ton of different types.

“While many people think of them as simple sleeves, there is actually a wide variety available to suit different preferences,” Maria explains.

“Some have an inner textured sleeve, some have motorised thrusting features, and others can be used flaccid or erect and even hands-free. Some masturbators even offer oscillations or suction-like sensations, and some even mimic specific anatomical forms.”

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Now that we’ve got that sorted, HuffPost has rounded up the very best male masturbators, strokers, and blowjob machines on the market. Ready, set, go!

What to look for when buying a male masturbator

If you’re still stumped by that list (ahem) we’ve asked Maria to suggest what features to look out for when shopping:

Texture: “Different toys offer very different sensations, so it’s helpful to think about whether you enjoy gentle stimulation, vibration, or a more intense stroking motion,” Maria suggests. “Do you want something soft, ribbed or even beaded?”

Features: “If you wanted to take it up a notch, some toys offer advanced features like thrusting elements, suction options and even vibrations or warming functions.

Maintenance: “Beyond the experience and feel, it’s also important to choose a toy made from body-safe materials to ensure safety and longevity. You also need to consider that some toys will need extra care, cleaning and maintenance after use.”

How do you use a male masturbator?

While we’d like to say you can simply slip your schlong in a hole and call it a day, it’s not always that simple. Here are Maria’s top tips for using a male masturbator:

Lube, lube, and more lube!

“One thing that should never go amiss is using plenty of water-based lubricant,” Maria explains.

“It is one of the simplest ways to make a male masturbator feel more comfortable and pleasurable. Make sure to apply it to both the toy and your penis.”

Take it slow

“Take your time and experiment with different speeds, pressures and movements to help you discover new ways to experience pleasure instead of relying on the same technique every time,” Maria recommends.

Cleanliness is key

“Make sure to maintain your toy after every use,” she adds. “This includes thoroughly cleaning it, drying it, and storing it according to the manufacturer’s instructions. Some toys can be pricey, so proper care helps maintain both hygiene and the product’s lifespan.” Amen to that.

FAQs about male masturbators

We get it, buying a sex toy is a serious venture. To make double double sure you’re making the right purchase, we’ve answered your burning questions.

Can you use a male masturbator with a partner?

“Absolutely, although they’re often marketed for solo pleasure, male masturbators can be a great addition to partnered sex,” Maria explains.

“Couples can incorporate them into foreplay, oral sex or mutual masturbation.

“One toy that is designed exactly for this experience is the Pulse Duo by Hot Octopuss. This toy is designed for couples navigating erectile difficulties, differences in desire, or simply looking to explore non-penetrative sex.”

How do you clean a male masturbator?

How you clean a male masturbator depends on the model. If it has a removable sleeve, you’ll want to take that out and flip it inside out, before washing it out with soap and water or sex toy cleaner.

If it doesn’t have a removable sleeve, you’ll need to make sure you thoroughly clean the inner and outer portion of the toy with hot water and soap or sex toy cleaner.

You’ll also want to make sure you towel dry your toy and store it away from dust and light, and in a storage pouch if you’re storing it with other toys.

Some masturbators, like Fleshlights, require maintenance with a powder, so make sure you read the instructions to make your toy last as long as possible.