BJ Novak, 45, has been dating TikToker Delaney Rowe, 28, for months

For years, many of us have complained about Mindy Kaling and BJ Novak's relationship and how dysfunctional their relationship looks to all of us out here in the cheap seats. Novak is very involved with Mindy's three kids, and we've been told repeatedly that he's the godfather to those kids. I'm increasingly convinced that he's the father as well as the godfather, but the point is that Mindy has spent years (if not decades) letting BJ take up too much emotional space in her life. It hasn't helped that BJ really hasn't been closely associated with another woman in many years, . . .